If They Can Have It, So Can You

Have you ever seen someone living a life that looks very similar to what you keep writing on your vision board and felt that little flicker of maybe this is possible for me too? That moment is expansion. And that is exactly what this week’s podcast episode is about.

In this 215th episode of the Canny Crystals Podcast, I talk about expanders and why they are one of the most important pieces of your manifestation journey. Expanders are people whose stories help your subconscious mind believe that what you desire is real, available and possible for someone like you. Not just for others, not just for the lucky few, but for you personally.

The reason this matters is simple. You do not manifest what you want. You manifest what you believe is possible for you. If your subconscious has never seen anyone with a life that feels relatable and aligned to your own dreams, it struggles to allow it in fully. Not because you are blocked or unworthy, but because it has no evidence yet. Expanders provide that evidence.

In this episode, I walk you through what expanders are and how they work. I explain the five different types including the surprising role of envy expanders. You will learn how to tell when someone is expanding you, why it matters if you feel inspired, curious or even a little triggered, and how to identify these moments when they appear. I also talk about what to do if no one in your current circle or environment reflects the life you want and how to find expanders through podcasts, books, films, communities, and even people who cross your path briefly.

I also show you how to build your own personal expander map and how to actually work with expanders to shift your beliefs and move closer to what you are calling in. This is not about copying someone else’s life. It is about using their journey as proof that a version of it is possible for you.

If you have been trying to manifest something for a while but it still feels slightly out of reach, this might be the missing link. Because once your subconscious finally believes, everything starts to change.

Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Search Canny Crystals Podcast, episode title ‘If They Can Have It, So Can You’.

After you listen, I would love to know who your first expander was. You might even be one for someone else already.